If you look at your role in modern society, it is obvious how much things are different compared to the hunter gatherer. There are also no cave paintings of couples battling it out in family court. If you are separated and you want to win your Ex back, why is it so difficult? What has been forgotten over time?
With modern society, a lot of unfairness has been ironed out (forgive the pun) of the workplace, ensuring equal reward for equal effort, regardless of your sex. Promotions are being offered to whoever deserves it the most. Women have worked very hard toward removing sexist work practices. However, we need to be vigilant that this movement does not spill into every aspect of life. To maintain happiness in a relationship requires remembering that a mans and woman’s needs can vary greatly.
What a woman needs is very different to what a man needs.
To meet a woman’s needs, a man has to be secure within himself. He needs to be able to step up, and be her “man”.
She needs her man to be able to provide security, whether that be financially or emotionally.
A mans confidence is very attractive to his lady. She wants her man to “lead” her in public places.
She needs to have interests and passions that are similar to his. The connection must be deeper than just lust. She wants to know that she will continue to be stimulated into the future.
A woman needs her man to be a MAN. Many women don’t realize this, and they feel they need to bring out the sensitive side of their man, to make him more like a woman.
Men are quite different in their requirements. The number one need for a man is to be a MAN. If a man senses that someone is trying to take this away from him, his survival instincts will kick in and he will leave.
If a man seeks a woman, these are the qualities he will look for.
Loyalty is very important. He must know that she will be consistent and dependable in her actions.
She must support him in his choices. He wants her to confirm his actions, and be on his side.
It is important that his lady is consistent. It is not good to say one thing, but do another
To be trusted is important. To question everything he does will make him feel she does not trust him.
So why are things so different today when we compare our relationships with our cave dwelling ancestors? We have definitely progressed in many ways, but we seem to have done some forgetting along the way. Men and women are obviously built differently physically, but they are also different psychologically. However, in this world of equal roles for the sexes, it has somehow been left out of the equation that there cannot be equal roles emotionally. This is creating record numbers of relationship breakups. For society to regain the balance, at some point a man is going to have to be a man and a lady is going to have to be a lady. This is crucial if you want to win your Ex back, and happiness at your deepest core depends on it.
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