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It is a scary world out there: many women yap on about wanting a guy built like Achilles with Matthew McConaughey’s face.

But there is something that trumps a great body, a beautiful face, social status, and money: Being a master Storyteller. Every ladies man I’ve ever met was a great storyteller.

If you aren’t a great storyteller, you’re missing out – big time.

Becoming a great storyteller may seem like a daunting task but it is actually easy. In fact, you already are a great storyteller yet don’t know it. Do you have stories you share with close friends, family, and women you know well? I bet you do.

Here’s what I want you to do: think about all the stories and experiences you share with friends and family. Write them out and make them a little more succinct.

Then share them with women when first meeting them. You’ll be shocked at how well they work.

Here’s a question you might be thinking: How do I transition into my stories during a conversation with a woman?

Here’s what to do: figure out the premise of your story. Then turn the premise into a juicy headline. Let’s pretend you had a one-legged uncle who won a marathon. The premise is this: people can still be successful athletes despite having serious setbacks.

Let’s come up with a juicy headline. How about: “People are always complaining about how hard it is to accomplish things. That’s a bunch of hogwash. I know cripples who outperform perfectly normal and healthy people. It’s all about sheer determination.” This is going to pique her interest. Now you can go into your story.

For each of your stories, try to come with a headline. Then go out and use them within the first few seconds of meeting a girl. I think you will be pleasantly surprised with the results.

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A woman attracts a man using both skill and some elements of luck. She must have luck because by nature, men and women have variable tastes, so whether a man will respond to her depends on his peculiar personality. She must have skill also, because her behavior will no doubt have an impact on how things turn out between them. Chance is not controllable, but honing and improving her understanding of managing men is an acquired technique.

In between the absence of a relationship and the full-onset of one, women and men engage in a span of flirting to open up and get to know each other. However, flirting doesn’t always lead to romance, nor are romantic intentions a prerequisite for flirting. Two reasons come to mind to explain this. Firstly, humans will use opportunities of face-to-face interaction to hone their skills. Therefore, it’s not unnatural that when any man and woman meet, one or both will engage in mild, low-level flirtation. Secondly, flirting plays a role of reducing tension in group settings by helping people open up and understand each other, provided that flirting is carried out in a nonthreatening way.

Flirting is composed of three simple elements: facial and eye communication before formal and spoken contact has been made, the choice of personal dress and grooming, and skill in conversation. Two people who don’t meet through an intermediary must start off by using facial and eye communication to establish interest in initiating contact. After contact, what a woman wears and how she carries herself can pique the interest of a man or dampen it. Finally, her skills in conversing will affect his interest levels.

Eye contact is a neglected but vital part of flirting. Foremost, establishing eye contact is the primary way for a woman to signal to a man that she is interested in meeting him, in the absence of an intermediary to who can formal introductions. To properly use her eyes to flirt, a woman should learn to scan her surroundings and the people around her, but be able to rest her gaze for a few almost imperceptibly longer moments on a man in whom she is interested. If the man isn’t too dim-witted, he should pick up this signal and approach her. If he doesn’t get the message, she can repeat this prolonged gaze once or twice to reinforce the message.

After contact has been initiated and conversation begins, a woman should take advantage of her control over spatial orientation and positioning. By this it’s meant that she should orient her body and face to the direction of the man, and pull her arms away from her front. These actions indicate that she will open up to the man to test the waters. In particularly, should she be with a group of girl friends, she should just so slightly turn away from them to show that she’s happy to spend some time with the man at their expense.

Flirting cannot occur in a vacuum. If a woman has poor choice of dress, cosmetics and messy hair, she is setting herself up for a more difficult task for meeting men. Imagine a woman who comes to a party dressed in very casual wear like track pants and running shoes. Not only is she out of place, she’s signaling to everyone that she really doesn’t care about attracting men and may in fact already be in a relationship. These small considerations for looking good don’t matter in the long run, but are crucial as the tiny factors that add up to successful flirting.`

In summary, the things over which a woman has control should be emphatically practiced. She can ensure that she is dressed right and looks appropriate for the occasion, and exert her nonverbal and verbal cues at the right times. With practice she will be able to increasingly improve her chances of attracting guys she wants.

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